Fountain explained that his wife had made the cupcakes. His son, Hunter, helped decorate them. The following morning, Fountain’s wife brought the taboo treats to the school’s front office, where the secretary reportedly remarked favorably on their appearance.
“About 15 minutes later the school called my wife and told her they couldn’t serve the cupcakes because the soldiers had guns,†Fountain told Fox News. “My wife told them to remove the soldiers and serve the cupcakes anyway — and I believe she may have used more colorful language.â€
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So yeah, the wife said to remove them and then the dad bitched about it. I don't see anything about the school "freaking out." They did the right thing by calling the parents and informing them of a situation. The parents are the ones freaking out, not the school. Unless you consider calling parents to discuss a situation "freaking out."