I'm reading about it now. Ansari built a career on being a super nice, non-threatening comedian. He's a nebish muslim who'd have no chance of pulling quality tail if he was an accountant.
Ansari and this chick rush through a date, start to fool around. They do some stuff (I think she started to blow him) and she isn't feeling it. Ansari, who has built this career on being a nice guy, want to take out his lobster dinner in trade. He's pointing to his cock, and wants the rest of his blow job. He can't read the room. She leaves, crying, and has had a horrible time.
Nothing happens until the chick sees him up at some awards show, wearing a Times Up! pin. "The fuck??!!" she says. This dude gives the good guy image, but he's a shithead (in her opinion. In the opinion of the girl who went on the date).
So if you are going to build your career on being a good guy, don't be surprised if your cover is blown when you can't read the blow job room.