hola.
i live in san diego as well, but i live in the metro area, so i don't know what the rules are in terms of north county blackouts. i had to get mlb.tv, which being a baseball fan in general; i do not regret, and after 7 years of it, i cannot live without.
as far as black outs, try this site. pretty decent.
http://atdhe.eu/baseball